Monday, November 23, 2009

Columbia: Being a Gay Parent in Columbia

In a great number of ways, my last two years of high school in Hong Kong were quite different from my years of schooling in Colombia. For one, my Hong Kong school was much more liberal, and so were my fellow students. I remember that one day our teachers had organized a discussion on gay marriage and gay rights, for the school held a great deal of debates on all sorts of issues. That day, the opening speaker was a fellow classmate who told us about growing up having two female parents. Her mothers, it happened, were a committed lesbian couple who had raised her and cared for her in the same way that a heterosexual couple would have. My classmate loved both her mothers, just as they loved her, and she was happy with the way her family was. Furthermore, she was straight. I decided to start with this story because a few weeks ago a related and controversial event took place in Rionegro, Antioquia. Earlier this month, a judge in that paisa municipality decided to grant custody of a girl to a committed lesbian couple. The child is the biological daughter of one of the women, and she has been raised by both of them since her birth, almost two years ago. Unsurprisingly, the case has opened the debate on adoptions and parental rights for same-sex couples. Full Story from Columbia Reports: http://colombiareports.com/opinion/131-gustavo-silva-cano/6990-gay-parenthood-in-colombia.html

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1 Comments:

Blogger Tiburón said...

Really interesting article.

"Children raised in those families, Monsignor Cordoba said, “would not receive an adequate upbringing [and] will have problems with their sexual identity”." - I don't know a plethora of people raised in gay and lesbian families, but the ones I do are incredibly confident and understanding people. If anything they felt safe to be who they are - whoever that is. And, the majority of them are straight, but everyone knows that gay parents do not have gay children (then straight parents would have straight ones!). I find it interesting that those that lobby against same-sex couple adoption aren't fighting against children whose parents are negligent. I work in a fourth grade classroom and so many of my students come from homes where parents simply don't value education and respectfulness. These kids come in with attitudes and refuse to do work because "my mom don't make me do work at home!". We have kids under 14 that are gang raping, but instead of questioning their parents we blame video games and media (which of course does play a factor as well).

November 23, 2009 at 11:02 AM  

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