Ellis Vance, Minister and Husband, Speaks at Meet in The Middle

In October, they will celebrate 43 years together - has worn his ring for the entire time.

They raised two children in Clovis California, where their kids attended school.  They were involved with kids in school, church - "we lived a very normal life".

"On June 17th, Robin and I were married at the Fresno County Clerk's office. Now I can legally call him my husband."

"We are a married couple in the eyes of God as well, and will remain so forever."

"The time is not later - the time is now!"